Do We Fall In Love Or Do We Create Love?
The question of whether or not we fall in love or not is an interesting one. For a long time it’s simply been assumed that we fall in love, that it’s some process of fate. However, this belief has been questioned a lot recently, particularly since the results of a study conducted in 1997 show. What this study showed is that people who ask their partner a series of 36 questions that are designed to make people feel vulnerable and open created more attraction and intimacy between couples than those that didn’t. This was even if they weren’t initially attracted to that person either but after answering these questions they began to feel attracted. What this shows is that asking questions that evoke vulnerability create conditions for comfort and mutual attraction because of the shared vulnerability. It also makes one question whether or not the whole belief about falling in love is really a legitimate one. Perhaps more likely is that we have to create love with the people we date. It’s about taking the action and the positive steps to creating love rather than simply believing it’s going to happen to you. You can take positive action now and try personal introductions. Personal introductions is a safe and comfortable way to meet new, like-minded people. You will meet people who are in a similar position to you and are looking to meet people for a committed, long term relationship. The way you can make sure that you find love this year is by taking action and you can do that via personal introductions and matchmaking. If you are frustrated with your current dating efforts then this is the best way for you to make the most of your dating efforts. So get in touch today and take action towards creating love in your life today. You owe it to yourself to find an amazing partner to share your life with.